Paper Trail - A poem
Paper Trail
She is nothing,
but she has a point of view.
She is young,
but she rummages through
the tissues in her bra,
she’s no star.
She has no pockets
for ritzy spent dockets;
she is just nothing,
but she has a point of view.
He’s not the right image,
for you, true blue.
You’re tiptoeing around
with only one shoe.
He’s not the right image
for us too.
The female beast
is the one inside you.
Censoring self,
isn’t your due.
There’s blue paint
on the ceiling,
as a short-film mart.
Plastered on the wall
peeling off your heart,
is just the start.
The hostage burns slow
when the light gets too low.
Self-sabotage protects the other,
self-delete inserts another.
Anon.
Domestic violence victim-survivors share early warning signs of abuse
By Kellie Scott
Posted to ABC News, 01/07/25 – 1:00pm
Told they couldn’t go out with friends. Stopped from giving male friends a hug. Called crazy and gaslit when their partner did something wrong.
These are just some of the early signs of intimate partner violence shared by victim-survivors in recent research from the University of Melbourne.
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What helped Lili after surviving domestic violence in childhood
By Kellie Scott
Posted to ABC News, 29/07/25 – 3:08pm (Updated 06/08/25 – 8:49am)
The program coordinator for Engender Equality’s Advocates for Change says advocacy is a chance for victim-survivors to rebuild community and reclaim their voice.
“When you step into advocacy spaces, you get to experience allyship … you get to celebrate strength and resilience.”
Coercive Control: Abuse in Hiding
Coercive control is insidious. It is strategic. It is abuse in hiding.
He: didn’t look for someone to love; he looked for someone to control.
She: Easy going, friendly, positive person = gullible to manipulation.
The dangerous form of abuse around food that often goes unnoticed
By Kellie Scott
Posted to ABC News, 07/02/23 – 6:00am
Food control is a form of coercive control that is often invisible and potentially life-threatening. Identifying its signs, and pathways to help is important and can take time.
Victim-survivors of domestic violence share how we can help them feel safer to disclose abuse
By Kellie Scott
Posted to ABC News, 15/02/24 – 2:06pm (Updated 15/02/24 – 4:24pm)
Disclosing abuse can be incredibly difficult. Victim-survivors fear they won’t be believed, often blame themselves, and have a lot of shame around the violence they are experiencing.
But there are ways we can help those in our lives feel safer to share.
Ten years and $200,000: the cost in Australia of protecting a child from an abusive ex-partner
By Kate Lyons
Posted to The Guardian, 17/05/24 – 01:00
When Caroline left her husband after years of emotional, financial and physical abuse, she thought she and her toddler were finally free.
But it was only the start of a new kind of trauma – the world of family law proceedings.