Three Minute Thoughtcasts

In this short video Dr Torna Pitman tackles the myths about why abusers behave the way they do, revealing that control and entitlement are more likely to be driving factors than mental health problems or past mistreatment.

The term 'emotional abuse' describes a pattern of interference, subjugation and rejection that over time erodes the victim's sense of self and self-worth.

Abusers often use continuous verbal criticism and analysis of their victim as a control tactic.

In this short video Dr Torna Pitman explains how psychological abuse can be used to undermine and dominate the victim, forcing them to doubt their own reality.

Coercion in relationships can be constant and strategic – it can feel like a cage. "The coercive controller disempowers you and at the same time they blame you."

In this Three Minute Thoughtcast Dr Torna Pitman tackles the key tactic of conversational control.

Dr Torna Pitman examines conversational control in action and how it serves to erode your freedoms and rights.